What’s in your nightstand drawer?

I think it’s important to have a well-stocked nightstand that includes a variety of items to enhance one’s sexual experience. Some of the items that I like to keep on hand are:

• lube: my current favorite is a silicone-based lubricant called “Swiss Navy.” There’s also KY, warming gel, and edible/flavored lube
• vibrator
• massage oil and lotion in favorite scents
• a variety of condoms–with & without spermicide, some novelty colors and flavors

Some items that I keep nearby, though not in the drawer:

• candles and matches
• an iPod dock for some iTunes playlists that are especially compiled just for our intimate time
• extra pillows
• a towel (though I think I’m going to adopt the red washcloth idea soon)
• lingerie
• sometimes our laptops are at hand so we can watch a bit of a movie together or do some internet searching on a particular topic

Earlier in our married years we had some sex reference books next to our bed. We’ve also had some items that haven’t remained a part of our nightstand cache. For example, handcuffs I found way too creepy [fyi, Sport Sheets products are a far safer, more comfy alternative to handcuffs]. We’ve had various edible concoctions and kama sutra potions that, while interesting for their novelty value, haven’t remained mainstays for us.

I’m curious…what’s in your nightstand drawer?

Going green in the bedroom

If you use a vibrator or other sex toys, you should be aware of the high levels of phthlates that have been found in these products (the same chemicals found in the banned children’s toys from China, but at dramatically higher levels).

For those of you concerned about toxins and who want to make sure that your bedroom is a healthy, eco-friendly space, you’ll want to check out these 10 tips for a “greener” sex life.

You might also want to try the Herbwife’s recipe for homemade lubricant (if you do try it, please drop a word in the comments, I’m totally interested in knowing if it works well!).

And for those who want to make sure that their toys don’t end up in the landfill, check out the Rabbit Amnesty Program.