This post, “Queerly Yours” and all the recent discussion about Prop 8 and the evils of homosexuality has made me ponder attraction. All my life I’ve liked boys/men and I don’t have any real impetus to change that, but I do think I could like girls if I wanted to. I find some women very attractive and I think I could condition myself to think about them romantically if the circumstances were right.
However, even though I can imagine myself altering my attraction, I don’t think everyone can. Some people are clearly heterosexual or clearly homosexual. Which is why I think that equal civil rights for gays is a no-brainer and I’m disappointed by the church’s relentless campaigning for the Prop.
What about you, do you think you could go against your natural sexual inclination (whether hetero or homosexual)? Does this affect your stance on issues like Prop 8?